Sexuality in Tokyo


The dream of bringing Eros back:

I was invited for dinner. We ate Sashimi, grilled fish, rice and salad. It was a very good dinner.

The couple turned their home into an erotic palace with many naked full sizes mannequins, objects and books..

Both dream of bringing Eros back to Japan.


By walking in public demonstrations and creating art the couple wants to bring their topic to others.

While it feels a bit strange to report about "sexuality in Japan", as I am clearly a cultural stranger to Japan, there are a couple of observations that I can be made in the everyday life.

In the modern public education system the physical intimacy is an off-topic. Considering sexual education is still taught to children with bees and flowers.

While fast changes happen in technologies and societies and political order causing role conflicts in the rest of the "modern" world, the rigid definitions on women’s and men’s role in the society in Japan refrains from adjustments to modernity.


In Japan the adult-film-industry only shows censored porn.

For the rush hours the subway has coaches reserved only for women, because of perverts touching them. All around the city advertisements offer services for cuddling & talking to schoolgirls or diaper changing while acting as infants for men. BDSM whipping and tight ropes are on supply, as well. What is called Pedophilia in the West is called Lolita-fetish in Japan.

In Japanese society dealing with this obviously abnormal sexual behaviors appears to be very honest. An exception that this extreme isn’t frowned up by society?

Sexualized female depictions can be found everywhere in Tokyo. Printed on the windows of Pachinko and gaming centers, on magazines in the convenience stores, in advertisements, and they are also an inherent part of Anime and Manga. In the Japanese pop art of animated humanized objects and living things the transition from "cuteness" – there is an obsession for cuteness – to erotic connotations does not make a stop for animals, children and robottig humans: childlike with overly big eyes, boobs and butt (women) and tallness and muscles (men).

Officially prostitution is prohibited in Japan.

A biologically dysfunctional sexual behavior seems to evolve: Japan’s population number is declining!

Is a partnership inappropriate in general? That’s what herbivore men would agree with – young (heterosexual) men who renounce from sexual contact to women is a trend perceived by Tokyo’s gender studies of the 21th century. Most research in this field has been carried out by male scholars. Whether similar trends are followed by some groups of the female gender, seems to remain not interesting in Japanese academia.

Kabukicho would proof the latter estimation. Here, below neon advertisings, the side walks are filled with male hosts whose professional services as a friend and prostitute are sought out by women, only.

Statistics claim to record world’s highest rate of homosexuality among young men in Japan. In 2018 8,9 % defined themselves as LGBTQ+ (Dentsū Inc.).


What would that mean for the countrie's' future? How does the human specie define itself within this and out of this extreme situation? How is this situation handled – by politics, economy and society? How could a positive turn look like? Or is this the end of a culture?